Food, Glorious Food! Thanksgiving Style...

I love to cook. If you asked me five years ago what I would be doing at 2:30 in the morning Thanksgiving day, it WASN'T glazing a turkey and checking on pulled pork. Over the past year, I have been evolving- I am a better mother, daughter, and friend than I was... I get what matters, and have given up trying to expand my circle of control. I can only be who I am, and do what I can. Cooking has been a big part of that. When I couldn't sleep, I experimented with relishes, chutneys, and sauces. When the kids were bouncing off the walls, we baked (little kids are quite good at kneading dough)! As a result, I am a far better chef than I was in the past. Yes, I can still rock out some amazing mac and cheese- with goat cheese and caramelized onions, of course. I still resort to a quick meal for myself- but I can also create masterpieces.

Luckily, I know a lot of people that like good food, and don't have the time or energy to create it themselves. That's where I come in, and how Mama Bee Kitchen Coaching was born. I have SO MUCH FUN teaching other mamas (and a few dads!) some tricks in the kitchen. Now that the holidays are here full force, I am so enjoying being a part of THREE families' Thanksgiving- I make it, they eat it. I am not a "real" caterer- or a "real" chef, but when people want home cooked, they are calling me. The families I am cooking for this Thanksgiving are SO different and it's been a blast developing their menus! Since I love food (have you seen my ass? This is like a DUH statement) I wanted to share the menus with you...

Family One: Pescetarian Delight

Carrot, Sweet Potato and Ginger bisque

Oysters, Shrimp Cocktail, and Hot Crab Dip

Spinach Spoonbread

Roasted Root Vegetables with Cranberries and Walnuts

Mashed Potatoes

Spinach & Strawberry Salad

Roasted Garlic Brussel Sprouts

Balsamic Glazed Salmon

Pumpkin Pie

Pecan Pie

Family Two: Traditions, Traditions!

Brie, Caramelized Onions & Fig Tartlets

Mashed potatoes

Spinach Spoonbread

Squash Casserole

Simon & Garfunkel stuffing: Parsley, Sage, Rosemary and Thyme!

Cranberry Orange Relish

Challah turkey

Roasted Sweet Potatoes

Turkey, brined and glazed with a mustard maple sauce

Mustard Maple Reduction 

Traditional Gravy

Asparagus with Balsamic glaze

Coconut Cream Pie

Chocolate Toffee Trifle

Family Three: Down Home, Baby AKA Thanksgiving? How About FOOTBALL?

Onion and Bacon Pinwheels

Brisket Bruschetta

Buffalo Chicken Dip

Spinach Spoonbread

Cornbread

Sweet Potato pudding (savory)

Pulled Pork

Trio of BBQ sauces: Balsamic, North Carolina, and Brown Sugar

Roasted Corn, Peppers, and Tomato salad

Mashed potatoes

Green Bean Casserole

Bacon & Onion Stuffing

Goat Cheese Mac with Caramelized Shallots & Bacon

Pumpkin Pie

Pecan Pie

Grasshopper Pie

So from my multiple families to yours- go play in the kitchen. Experiment! Enjoy the process! Expect to toss ten versions of bread before you hit on the right one. 

And seriously, pass the gravy.

Awesomesauce, and the like...

OK, so I am not completely callous. I am ridiculously thankful for SO much my heart is full to nearly bursting. I am a smidge of a Turkey Day grinch, but I still have a lot of love to give.

So, my yearly "I am thankful for..." list....

1. My dishwasher
2. Meringue powder
3. Delicata squash
4. Curious Kids Childcare
5. My job, at the lovely AVCAS
6. Disney World
7. Wegman's
8. Market Basket
9. My mama gals, the lovely rockin' and shockin'
10. ACM- she's always real, and I love that.
11. Hamilton College- both for the friends it brought me and the doors it opened! Couldn't imagine life right now without my Sara, Quinn, and Ginger.
12. My lawyer
13. 6 Coolidge Circle- for the cozy life I lead here with my boys and for giving me
14. Hannah and Dick next door, AKA Nanny Hanny and Pepe- yes, she hates that it's not "Nana Hannah" but hell, I have little boys- we don't say really anything correctly- the boys adore them, and I ADORE speaking to an adult regularly.
15. Cape May, NJ- just go there. You'll understand.
16. My sense of humor- you have to laugh at yourself or else you are utterly SCREWED.
17. My mom- she's the reason I am who I am. And if I wasn't who I am today, I totally would have failed at life.
18. Being a Baer. We rock. GO TEAM BAER!
19. JB. Because he's JB. No explanation needed.
20. New friends who I feel like have known me for YEARS. Even though she drinks beet juice and is a GASP runner.
21. Messages like this...from a dear friend, who I don't see enough, but who knows my core..."you are one of the fiercest women I know. I can tell how hard things have become but I know you'll come 
through with grace and style." BAHAHA I have everyone fooled! No style here!!!

See? Not a total grinch here! What makes your life most wonderful? Think about it- and then tell them...

Yes, I am thankful...

And no, I'm not boycotting Turkey day, at least, not completely. I am fully prepared to spend the holiday WITHOUT the two things I am most thankful for- M & J. They will be with their father, and yes, I think I can handle it. And by handle it, I mean cater three family meals, bake countless pies, scrub the house, volunteer, and possibly sit down to a turkey sandwich. I have no dearth of invitations- I am certainly not unwelcome, even if I will be alone, by choice. I will have my Thanksgiving- in a week, with my parents, and that's going to be Thanksgiving. I am not constrained by some stupid calendar.

Screw it, I will make my own dang Thanksgiving. I created life, and therefore, I think I can whip up a holiday any freaking day I want.

Tidings of comfort and joy...

Yes, that's a lyric from a Christmas carol. Yes, I am listening to exclusively Christmas music. And yes, I know it is only November. My house is decked out- the tree is up, the mantle is dressed, the garlands are decorated. AND I AM OK WITH THAT. The rest of the world seems to not be though. Frankly, I don't really care. Christmas makes me happy. I like being happy. My boys like being happy too. Our house smells yummy, and is full of happy sounds. I am that person that started decorating for Halloween in September as well. People can bite me. I like Halloween. Why should we only get to enjoy the decorations for a month? I want more! Same with Christmas. As a child, we left our Christmas tree up and decorated for several years, with no interruption. It was comforting. Sometimes I would plug the lights in and do my homework by twinkly light in March. Honestly, I see no reason to confine the joy of Christmas to just one month- why can't we enjoy it longer? The malls are already decorated, and I love it. People just seem nicer. Granted, the whole crazy holiday shopping scene can bite me- no body has time for that- and that's why we have Amazon Prime. It's not about what you buy or give, but the laughter, family time, lights, and happiness of the holidays. So yeah, my house is blinged out. There is glitter floating through the air.

And I am so ok with that, as it really does bring tidings of comfort and joy.